"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In your favor

Best friends? NAY

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I had an interesting idea the other day. I was watching the 2nd matrix movie and was wondering why I thought the first fight scene (him vs. three agents) just looked so dam cool compared to the rest. I quickly realized it was beacuse everything seemed to be working for him. Everytime he got hit we would fly back kick off a wall and be straight back into it. Nothing they could do was takin him down, the system (or matrix in the movie) was 100% working for him.

By now your probaly thinking get to the damn point already. So I will.

Start to think and act like the world is 100% in your favor. If you walked off the edge of a cliff a bridge would appear. Everything that happends even when it's bad is helping you in some way. Nothing can harm you, everything is to your advantage.

How would you act?
How would you think about things?
How would this change you?
How would you live?
Think about it. Be about it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Your drifting away from reality slap out of it!!!! Its a movie for godsake with a lot of twist and turn, alot of eye catching scenes a lot of fantasy. However I wouldnt compare myself to neo.(Not real! Hes an actor!) But hey if it works for you then Hooray!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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