Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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In wake of Zimmerman trial new poll finds most Americans see blacks as most racist

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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From my experience as a White male, most White folks I know don't view Blacks as being racist, but rather see Blacks as always bringing race into any and every issue whenever a Black person is involved. It gets really tiresome and even the most liberal of Whites are growing weary of this knee-jerk reaction.

It's really disconcerting because if the Black community frivalously brings up the race issue when clearly there was none, it undermines real social injustices that take place.
 

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The_flying_dutchman said:
From my experience as a White male, most White folks I know don't view Blacks as being racist, but rather see Blacks as always bringing race into any and every issue whenever a Black person is involved. It gets really tiresome and even the most liberal of Whites are growing weary of this knee-jerk reaction.

It's really disconcerting because if the Black community frivalously brings up the race issue when clearly there was none, it undermines real social injustices that take place.
reppity repped

I'm not racist, I don't know anyone who is (to my knowledge)..I have no problem with black people. But just from what I've observed they (not all black people obviously) do seem to be more fixated on race, about issues in which race never would have occurred to me.
 

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I'm not racist, but I like dat dere post you just made haha. Good point
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The_flying_dutchman said:
From my experience as a White male, most White folks I know don't view Blacks as being racist, but rather see Blacks as always bringing race into any and every issue whenever a Black person is involved. It gets really tiresome and even the most liberal of Whites are growing weary of this knee-jerk reaction.

It's really disconcerting because if the Black community frivalously brings up the race issue when clearly there was none, it undermines real social injustices that take place.
Yeah the "protesters" attacked people walking down the street.. because they were white?... but the jurors, Zimmerman, and everyone else involved is racist, who are the real racists here?

This was a media circus from day one. The Liberal media needed a two fold victory - one against guns, the other a pumped up racial angle. Sometimes reality and liberal ideology disagree.
 

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I dont know how to tell you without touching your sensitivity but it may happen that a certain person is dislike because he is an a$$hole and not because of his race...even more surprisingly someone can fail because he sucks and not because someone is discriminating against him.

It reminds me that story about the kid screaming that the house was on fire only for the people gathering with water to find out it was a joke...well the joke kept going many days till the people got tired of it and when the real fire came, nobody believed to the kid.
 
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