Shivastorm_88
Senior Don Juan
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- Jul 10, 2007
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I have three major AFC moments.
1) I was enamored with a girl whom I had spoken to ONCE in real person, face to face, although I talked to her a lot on MSN (funny thing is, I got her MSN through a friend). I remember I refused to go out (didn't have many friends as well back then) so I could talk to her. However, at school I was too God damn shy to even talk to her, I was avoiding her like plague. Worse part is, this girl was a complete slut (gave two BJ back to back to two guys celebrating their birthday when I was in 11th grade). I remember when my friend told me this I got so upset I cried about it.
2) In cegep (I live in Quebec, it's unique to here, it's a bridge of 2-3 years between 11th grade and university) I was becoming less shy but still hadn't found this website. I had went on a date with a girl (whom I later found out she used me to get attention since the guy she wanted to bang didn't go for her) and since it was my first date, I was so excited afterward that I started talking to her on MSN every day, but also on the phone all the time, up to a point where she had to tell me to stop calling her because it was getting too much... At least I got the message and moved on.
3) Around my 18 birthday, I was pursuing this attention wh0re, again talking with her all the time on MSN, but this time trying to seduce her through intellectual talks (on MSN, hahah). I invited her to my 18th bday party, and obviously she didn't show up, and needless to say it A) ruined my party, and B) I cried, again!
Third moment brought me to this website. Now I'm far from being a DJ master or whatever you want to call it, but my old AFC days are definitely behind me. I got my life together, made new better friends, found myself some new hobbies and a passion for drawing (used to waste my life away on computer games), became much, much more confident, highly more outgoing (i.e.: I organize a lot of stuff with friends, before I never did that once!) stopped putting women on a pedestal (I basically treat them like a hobby now). Hell I'm even planning to buy a condo next year (still at university). Basically I'm stepping up, shredding my boyhood and becoming a man.
I'm still not very good at cold approaches (although I do some) but this isn't my priority right now, my priority is really to work on myself, and I'm becoming quite satisfied with the outcome.
So yeah, that's my part, thought it could be interesting to hear your stories as well, and feel free to comment on everyone that shares as well.
1) I was enamored with a girl whom I had spoken to ONCE in real person, face to face, although I talked to her a lot on MSN (funny thing is, I got her MSN through a friend). I remember I refused to go out (didn't have many friends as well back then) so I could talk to her. However, at school I was too God damn shy to even talk to her, I was avoiding her like plague. Worse part is, this girl was a complete slut (gave two BJ back to back to two guys celebrating their birthday when I was in 11th grade). I remember when my friend told me this I got so upset I cried about it.
2) In cegep (I live in Quebec, it's unique to here, it's a bridge of 2-3 years between 11th grade and university) I was becoming less shy but still hadn't found this website. I had went on a date with a girl (whom I later found out she used me to get attention since the guy she wanted to bang didn't go for her) and since it was my first date, I was so excited afterward that I started talking to her on MSN every day, but also on the phone all the time, up to a point where she had to tell me to stop calling her because it was getting too much... At least I got the message and moved on.
3) Around my 18 birthday, I was pursuing this attention wh0re, again talking with her all the time on MSN, but this time trying to seduce her through intellectual talks (on MSN, hahah). I invited her to my 18th bday party, and obviously she didn't show up, and needless to say it A) ruined my party, and B) I cried, again!
Third moment brought me to this website. Now I'm far from being a DJ master or whatever you want to call it, but my old AFC days are definitely behind me. I got my life together, made new better friends, found myself some new hobbies and a passion for drawing (used to waste my life away on computer games), became much, much more confident, highly more outgoing (i.e.: I organize a lot of stuff with friends, before I never did that once!) stopped putting women on a pedestal (I basically treat them like a hobby now). Hell I'm even planning to buy a condo next year (still at university). Basically I'm stepping up, shredding my boyhood and becoming a man.
I'm still not very good at cold approaches (although I do some) but this isn't my priority right now, my priority is really to work on myself, and I'm becoming quite satisfied with the outcome.
So yeah, that's my part, thought it could be interesting to hear your stories as well, and feel free to comment on everyone that shares as well.