"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In the Words of Mick Jaggar "Am I Rich Enough?"

koolbreeze

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my main concern is the money issue..
I am 52 yrs young and single but have never really
knocked down the bucks in my life and this has been a
"kiss of death" when they find out what I make.. .
What can I do to overcome this. I have looks, charm,
personality.. short but dont let this overcome me, but
its the Achilles heal of the dollars... Please let me
hear from you on your take on this..
Many Thanks Fellow DJ....
Koolbreeze

 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i have very little clue as to what the hell you are talking about.

But, regarding money, its actually not that hard.

Just be proud of the fact that you are not wealth-oriented. Basically denounce wealth (one of the laws of power is to denounce that which you do not have) and act like you absolutely have no need for it. Lead a fun life. Find a way not to have money matter in your life.

It really shouldn't matter then. Plus, you are 52, man. There are plenty of women 40 and up who are still sexy and single and have money, and JUST WANT A MAN. So basically as long as you act like you don't care about money and have other qualities (health, charm and some kind of skills - whether you're handy or play great guitar or whatever) - you shouldn't have a problem getting some good women, as long as you don't expect to get 25 year old playmates.
 

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Thanks egoist...hoping to get some good feedback..never heard the Laws of Power thing.. interesting......Koolbreeze
 

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Also.. in the words of Mick Jagger...

"You can't always get what you want, but if you try you can get what you need"


I f*ckn love that song!

If they don't like you for having no money, screw 'em cuz that's how superficial they really are. Be proud that your life doesn't revolve around money, cuz it can be a real problem (especially for the gold diggers).

Let 'em see u for your attractive qualities. Ever have a girl who was so cute and bubbly, but had like an extra toe, but it wouldn't matter anyway cuz she's already won your heart thru her bubbliness? Vice-versa mate. Let them see what's good about you. Show them what you're made of. As for the extra toe, let 'em find out on their own terms.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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