"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In the Words of Mick Jaggar "Am I Rich Enough?"

koolbreeze

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my main concern is the money issue..
I am 52 yrs young and single but have never really
knocked down the bucks in my life and this has been a
"kiss of death" when they find out what I make.. .
What can I do to overcome this. I have looks, charm,
personality.. short but dont let this overcome me, but
its the Achilles heal of the dollars... Please let me
hear from you on your take on this..
Many Thanks Fellow DJ....
Koolbreeze

 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Egoist

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i have very little clue as to what the hell you are talking about.

But, regarding money, its actually not that hard.

Just be proud of the fact that you are not wealth-oriented. Basically denounce wealth (one of the laws of power is to denounce that which you do not have) and act like you absolutely have no need for it. Lead a fun life. Find a way not to have money matter in your life.

It really shouldn't matter then. Plus, you are 52, man. There are plenty of women 40 and up who are still sexy and single and have money, and JUST WANT A MAN. So basically as long as you act like you don't care about money and have other qualities (health, charm and some kind of skills - whether you're handy or play great guitar or whatever) - you shouldn't have a problem getting some good women, as long as you don't expect to get 25 year old playmates.
 

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Thanks egoist...hoping to get some good feedback..never heard the Laws of Power thing.. interesting......Koolbreeze
 

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Also.. in the words of Mick Jagger...

"You can't always get what you want, but if you try you can get what you need"


I f*ckn love that song!

If they don't like you for having no money, screw 'em cuz that's how superficial they really are. Be proud that your life doesn't revolve around money, cuz it can be a real problem (especially for the gold diggers).

Let 'em see u for your attractive qualities. Ever have a girl who was so cute and bubbly, but had like an extra toe, but it wouldn't matter anyway cuz she's already won your heart thru her bubbliness? Vice-versa mate. Let them see what's good about you. Show them what you're made of. As for the extra toe, let 'em find out on their own terms.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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