"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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'In the mood' music

DarkShade

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Hey all,

I promise I searched for a topic that pertained to this only to find few and far in between references. If this is just a repost or if I should be referred elsewhere, let me know, but I think this is important to the repertoire of setting the mood when 'evening activities' are taking place.

MUSIC

I know some like do just listen to the sounds of their partner and enjoy that, which is very rewarding. I like to spice things up a bit, for instance I put some white Christmas lights around my bed on the walls to give a soft glow so it's not totally pitch black or blinding light while doing the deed, plus it centers the bed in the room as 'the place' to be, if you are a female and happen to have entered my humble abode.

But enough about that, the purpose of this thread was to ask and tell what special musical tracks you use to get in the mood with your special treat for the night, or to listen to while you lay down the love. Here's my personal playlist and I hope to get some responses to help build it up, as well as help others get their groove on. Some of them are silly, most are R&B, and some may seem AFC'ish, but it's not the song that matters, it's how you do your thing.

In no particular order:

------Title-----------------------Artist------------------Album-----------------Genre------


  • Solex (Close To The Edge) ------ VA ------ Best Of Trance 2004 ------ Trance
    Piece Of Your Heart ------ Alvaro ------ TRANCE 2006 ------ Trance
    Light The Skies ------ Cerf, Mitiska & Jaren ------ Trance
    Heartquake ------ 2 Jays ------ Dance Charts 2006.2 ------ Dance
    Perfection ------ Dannii Minogue & The Soul Seekerz ------ Clubland 8 - CD2 ------ Club
    Bedtime ------ Baby Face & Usher ------ R&B
    Into You ------ Fabulous feat. Ashanti ------ R&B
    Don't Wanna Try No More ------ Frankie J Frankie J ------ R&B
    I Belong To You ------ Rome ------ Rome ------ R&B
    Can U Help Me ------ Usher ------ 8701 ------ R&B
    Love You Like I Did ------ 112 ------ Room 112 ------ R&B
    Peaches and Cream Remix ------ Jay-Z, 112, Lil' Kim ------ R&B
    A.D.I.D.A.S. ------ Killer Mike ------ monster ------ Hip-Hop
    She's Like A Star ------ Taio Cruz ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD2 ------ R&B
    Miss Independent ------ Ne-Yo ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD2 ------ R&B
    Love In This Club ------Usher & Young Jeezy ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD2 ------ R&B
    Here I Am ------ Rick Ross Ft Nelly & Avery Storm ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD2 ------ R&B
    Sexy Can I ------ Ray J & Yung Berg ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD2 ------ R&B
    Make Me Better ------ Fabolous & Ne-Yo ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD2 ------ R&B
    Dip It Low [remix] ------ Christina Milian & Fabolous ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD2 ------ R&B
    Maybe ------ Jay Sean ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD2 ------ R&B
    Body On Me ------ Nelly Ft Akon & Ashanti ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD2 ------ R&B
    Baby ------ LL Cool J & The Dream ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD2 ------ R&B
    My Louis ------ Danso feat. Angel ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD2 ------ R&B
    Those Gurlz ------ Snoop Dogg ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD2 ------ R&B
    Get It Shawty ------ Lloyd ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD1 ------ R&B
    Stryder Man ------ Tinchy Stryder ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD1 ------ R&B
    Heaven Sent ------ Keyshia Cole ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD1 ------ R&B
    I Luv Your Girl ------ The-Dream ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD1 ------ R&B
    Hip Hop Is Dead ------ Nas & Will.I.Am ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD1 ------ R&B
    A Milli ------ Lil Wayne ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD1 ------ R&B
    Put On ------ Young Jeezy Feat. Jay-Z ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD1 ------ R&B
    Disturbia ------ Rihanna ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD1 ------ R&B
    One More Chance ------ Will.I.Am ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD1 ------ R&B
    Way I Are ------ Timbaland & Keri Hilson ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD1 ------ R&B
    Saturday Night Hustle ------ Sway & Lemar ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD1 ------ R&B
    Turn The Page ------ Bobby Valentino ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD1 ------ R&B
    Big Dreams ------ The Game ------ Massive R&b: Winter Collection 2008: CD1 ------ R&B
    Perfect Exceeder ------ Mason vs Princess Superstar ------ Club
    Wonderful Tonight ------ Eric Clapton ------ The Osbourne Family Album ------ Rock
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hmmm I'll add one song

Crazy B!tch by buckcherry
 

ExcelNPrevail

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No offense but this new era pop ish, doesnt fly as well as old songs.

Check out

Don't Say Goodnight by The Isley Brothers (baby making music straight up)
Between the sheets by The Isley Brothers (nice slow groove)
Inside My Love by Minnie Ripperton (a classic love making song)
To You With Love by The Moments (so soothing)

Those are off the top of my head.


*check them out on youtube first if you want a preview*
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DarkShade

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Then I guess it's a good thing that the girls dig it
 
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