"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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In the LJBF zone with AW going to try something that should drive her nuts

jigga23

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Ok so i dated this AW for a month and we stopped cause I was calling her out on her AW sh1t and she didnt like that. After she ended it i bascially said go fvck yourself and not to come around. hahah she still comes around my house cause shes friends with friends and my roomates i introduced her too.

anyways last friday i saw her the first time in a week. she tried to talk to me like 10 times and i just sat there and did not reply. it was actually kind of funny. then by 2 am i started talking to her cause i was fvcked up and she got all excited. since then she has came to my house with her friend to hang (they are friends with my roomates also) everyday since friday. i took her to the fvckin ER on sat cause she hit her head. she came over last night and i was acting hot and cold with her and she was all compliant with whatever i said. I just said fvck it to myself and agreed to be in the friendzone with her for now.

she didnt have work today so i texted her and we ended up hanging out all day eating and hangin by the pool. we talked about all this sh1t. i was just acting like a c0cky azzhole with her (ive been doin this ever since we were dating.) we flirt, grab azz, she always says your such a c0cky blah blah. i slap her azz here and there. ive been dhving myself and dlving her a lot bascially saying shes whatever to me. she even made a motion to kiss me today but didnt. no guys treat her like that.

so now i will mostly talk to her tomorrow cause its my roomates birthday and she will need a ride to her work the next day if she comes. im thinking about saying hey I enjoyed hanging out with you all day yesterday and seeing you recently everyday but i need some space from you cause i am seeing way too much of you. i still wanna hang but we should tone it down alot. i might just go straight up cold on her and act distant and not return calls or texts. right now she is probalby like ok were cool now and everything is good. she mentions that noone gets under her skin like i do.

Will this work and drive her insane? i wanna do this to fvck with her cause shes an AW and plus i wanna not let her get to comfortable in the LJBF zone with me. i still have feelings for her and she does for me. I think if i do this it will bug her and make her come chase and fvck with her system.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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drtk

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You devil genius. Go for it! :D
 

jigga23

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should i go cold or tell her i need some space? i know she likes and wants my attention
 

drtk

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jigga23 said:
should i go cold or tell her i need some space? i know she likes and wants my attention
Straight up cold is the way to go, it's not really necesary to give her a heads-up.
 

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Just tell her what's on your mind. Rise above all the games and drama bulls---. In the long run you will be glad you were straight with her instead of pulling the whole stop returning calls, game playing garbage.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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well im just trying to play games with her cause its fun. I dont mind hanging out with her everyday but i just wanna fvck with her. If i were to tell her whats on my mind I would say he i still like you even though your an AW and wish we could still be dating. but that is not gon gto happen
 
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