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Don Juan
In the end all that there is to seduction is...go after what you want.
The basis of every success I have had is that I simply went after what I wanted until I got it.
The basis of every failure I have had is that I either did not try, or did not keep trying in differing ways.
The AFC does not go after what he wants and by definition this is not alpha and so he fails.
Going after what you want is all there is to being a hunter and a man. The alpha just goes after what he wants until he gets it. It is no matter if he misses with ten girls, or if he misses with ten arrows. He just keeps going. She is not the only girl, that was not the only deer. Life does not offer one girl, nor does it offer one deer. The alpha’s true nature is to simply go after what he wants.
I don’t even think that girls should be criticised for responding to the “just go after it approach.” Because that is exactly the kind of mate you would want looking after you in the jungle. A woman sees your interactions with her, as the same way you will interact with the world. If you are weak or hesitant with her, she will assume you are weak and hesitant with the world. If you lack courage, are not persistent, care too much about her barbs against you, put up with too much crap from her, this is the way she believes you will operate in the world.
Thus a woman tests a man she is interested in over and over again.
If we were to put this into a Zen approach it would be something like:
Learn everything there is about seduction. Become seduction itself. Then forget everything and act.
And what is the barrier to acting?
Courage. Just courage – the ability to act despite feeling fear and the ability to fail and keep coming back for more. The ability to take the pain of temporary failure. Really this could be a definition of alpha.
Of course that is what she wants because that is exactly what you would want from a mate in any harsh environment if you were a female. Someone who can handle both her and the world.
Go after what you want. Failure to act is the only barrier to successful seduction.
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The basis of every success I have had is that I simply went after what I wanted until I got it.
The basis of every failure I have had is that I either did not try, or did not keep trying in differing ways.
The AFC does not go after what he wants and by definition this is not alpha and so he fails.
Going after what you want is all there is to being a hunter and a man. The alpha just goes after what he wants until he gets it. It is no matter if he misses with ten girls, or if he misses with ten arrows. He just keeps going. She is not the only girl, that was not the only deer. Life does not offer one girl, nor does it offer one deer. The alpha’s true nature is to simply go after what he wants.
I don’t even think that girls should be criticised for responding to the “just go after it approach.” Because that is exactly the kind of mate you would want looking after you in the jungle. A woman sees your interactions with her, as the same way you will interact with the world. If you are weak or hesitant with her, she will assume you are weak and hesitant with the world. If you lack courage, are not persistent, care too much about her barbs against you, put up with too much crap from her, this is the way she believes you will operate in the world.
Thus a woman tests a man she is interested in over and over again.
If we were to put this into a Zen approach it would be something like:
Learn everything there is about seduction. Become seduction itself. Then forget everything and act.
And what is the barrier to acting?
Courage. Just courage – the ability to act despite feeling fear and the ability to fail and keep coming back for more. The ability to take the pain of temporary failure. Really this could be a definition of alpha.
Of course that is what she wants because that is exactly what you would want from a mate in any harsh environment if you were a female. Someone who can handle both her and the world.
Go after what you want. Failure to act is the only barrier to successful seduction.
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