"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sand

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What's up DJs?!
When I'm in the club and I'm dancing with a girl, I feel like I should be talking to her, but I don't know what to say. Any help would be appreciated.
THANKS!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OamImrsNemo said:
Leave the talking to your hands


yes. sign language is very useful. i took the class for 3 years and now my fingers are stronger than ever!




but on a serious note, use your hands, lead her, play with her, tons of kino. if you need to after a period of dancing when you're tired, take her outside for a cigarette or just to talk.
 

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p.s. I kinda wish I would have read this before I went out last night lol I danced a lot, but, like I said earlier, I just didn't know what to say and I think there were times where it would have been better not to say anything at all.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Say nice things. Fluff talk and teasing, compliments. But make sure you brush aside her hair with your fingers, whisper in her ear, caress her neck and shoulders, pull her into you gently but firmly -- 'when I dip/you dip/we dip' -- get the idea?

Make sure you're enjoying the moment and appreciating her body rather than trying to enact some tactic you learned off a web forum.

It doesn't really matter what you say my man. It's all delivery.
 

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Shout into her ear, "YOU BETTER NOT HAVE AIDS!!!"... People with aids get offended by this.
 

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From what I understand, it's mostly about kino (delivery). I have been able to do kino, but only on girls I have known for at least one date (even that took me a while. I had to start with friends). I still have a hard time doing it on someone I have just met. I feel like a creep lol
Thanks for the replies!!
 
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