"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In Search of a Checklist

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Hey all!

I remember about a year or so ago, I came across an article on here which contained a small list of specific traits a woman should have to even be considered. It was almost like a checklist and I remember saving the criteria to my phone as a reference whenever I'd go out on dates, etc.

I recall there being certain things such as "not clingy" and a few other things which were so simple and basic, yet so refreshingly direct, so I wanted to get a hold of it again but haven't been able to come across it. Got a new phone and now I'm on this mission from hell to get a hold of it :rolleyes:

Anyone know what I'm talking about? Any help is much appreciated, brothers (and sisters)! :rock:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Frayzer said:
Ahh.. I wasn't looking there I was looking in the actual forum :cuss:
the hall of fame are from the forum - like all the bible material.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Frayzer said:
Ahh.. I wasn't looking there I was looking in the actual forum :cuss:
Sorry! I must have made the mistake of ASSuming when I said I was going through articles that it would be understood I was referring to articles from the site :whistle:
 
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