"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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steve12b

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On the sosuave.com frontpage there's a little thing which makes a lot of sense. It says that women want a man who will make their life more interesting, and implies that you must do this by having your own interesting life. While I might be arguing over the definition of activity, I don't think that you necessarily need to be socially active to be interesting. What about the possability of a ying-yang relationship? The girl is very outgoing and social and feels that your inactiveness makes her complete. She wants someone to come home and relax with...not just a guy to take her to yet another party or bar.

This is probably the exception to the current rule, but didn't the rule used to be that women wanted comfort out of a relationship, not just excitement? You can generate excitement just between the two of you, it doesn't mean that your own life has to be exciting. Not that it shouldn't be, but to each his own.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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While I've seen the premise of "opposites attract" realized in relationships many times, I always laugh to myself when couples start to complain about those very traits of their partner's which are opposite to their own.
 

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women want a guy that doesnt show much interest in her, and acts like he has many other things going on..basically showing that she isnt that important to you. That will make her go CRAZY and make her work hard for your attention. When you show a girl too much attention, it'll make her think you're some loser that has no life..i agree with that article 100%
 
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