On the sosuave.com frontpage there's a little thing which makes a lot of sense. It says that women want a man who will make their life more interesting, and implies that you must do this by having your own interesting life. While I might be arguing over the definition of activity, I don't think that you necessarily need to be socially active to be interesting. What about the possability of a ying-yang relationship? The girl is very outgoing and social and feels that your inactiveness makes her complete. She wants someone to come home and relax with...not just a guy to take her to yet another party or bar.
This is probably the exception to the current rule, but didn't the rule used to be that women wanted comfort out of a relationship, not just excitement? You can generate excitement just between the two of you, it doesn't mean that your own life has to be exciting. Not that it shouldn't be, but to each his own.
This is probably the exception to the current rule, but didn't the rule used to be that women wanted comfort out of a relationship, not just excitement? You can generate excitement just between the two of you, it doesn't mean that your own life has to be exciting. Not that it shouldn't be, but to each his own.