VikingKing
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I mean, the 42 yearold looks hot in the pictures
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This makes you sound like a thirsty 40 year old woman. Tell you what, if a woman in her 40's looks like the one in the picture or better, I would consider it.Zarky said:I think older women are good for the following things:
-Giving young men a lesson in what a highly sexual woman should be like.
-Giving guys who want easy lays.. easy lays.
I think that all guys in their 20s should hook up with a woman in her 40s once. I don't mean just a one night stand (though that's fine too) but actually having her as a "lover."
This relationship will be ultimately doomed, as it should be, but it will give the young guy some "behind the scenes" footage of what women are really like which will serve him throughout his life with future dealings with chicks.
Of course the chance that the young guy takes is that he hooks up with an insane one. Hopefully he'll get one who knows the deal and wants to teach a young guy the ways of love rather than **** him over emotionally.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I would put money down that I couldbackbreaker said:i mean, even if we agreed that.. zekko.. could not get a 25 year old woman, which i don't think is the case, but let's say it was.. who the **** cares lol? this isn't a **** mesasuring contest. if zekko could not get a 25 year old woman
You have to respect that because I think it's harder for females to stay in shape, since their bodies are naturally less lean and muscular than males.backbreaker said:she's in better shape then me and she's 6 years older than I am.
I don't agree with this of course, but here on this forum they characterize that as "settling for the beta" after years of riding the c0ck carousel.backbreaker said:the 27 year old is a good 4-5 ayears from really understanding what i've accomplished and what i have to offer. at 27 years old she still thinks in the bak of her head that she / her boyfriend pizza guy is somehow going to magically be able to do what i've done. it wont' be til she gets a little older to she understands "damn he did the damn thing.. AND he's handsome as **** too. he really has his **** together.. me so horny lol"
Yeah, but she's dating a pizza guy. A pizza guy that lives in the gym, but still...backbreaker said:but none of this matters because just about everyone on this thread, has no chance at the 27 year old who keeps herself in shape like she does
I noticed that too. I've seen a picture of her as a blonde. I have no idea what her natural color is, but women change their hair color like guys change clothes.Danger said:On another note, I thought you said your wife was blonde?
Danger said:Nothing wrong with doing older girls. I have hooked up with a few cougars that still had it going.
Backbreaker, that girl who brought you here 12 years ago was the one who let 5 Mexicans tag-team her? And in her older pic she looks so wholesome, LOL! Just a great example of Rollo's "good girls do".
On another note, I thought you said your wife was blonde?
I bet you couldn't handle a "real woman" (whatever that means) either, grandpa. Not without viagara anyway. Few real life 42-year-old women look like photoshopped celebs you see in Esquire. A typical 42-year-old still looks pretty unappealing, despite the "advances" in plastic surgery. Whether you like it or not, human beings come with a best before date. And 42 is well past that date for most women.Tictac said:Scar & Zec,
Most of the pups here couldn't handle a real woman.
I get proof of that with some of the women I see that laugh at their patheticism.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'm not interested in plastic women. But I see some plenty of attractive women in their 40s. Are they in the minority? Yes, but there are still quite a few of them about.Bokanovsky said:\A typical 42-year-old still looks pretty unappealing, despite the "advances" in plastic surgery. Whether you like it or not, human beings come with a best before date. And 42 is well past that date for most women.
I'd say this sums it up.Tictac said:few in number
"Maturity" is a double-edged sword. Sure they may not be as shrill and childish as their 20-year-old counterparts but that comes at the price of bitterness and baggage that inevitably comes with age and failed relationships. It's six of one, half dozen of the other.zekko said:I was talking to a 20 year old girl last night. She was pretty hot, but her personality wasn't really developed yet. She was shrill and immature. Most older women have mellowed out some, I think that's the point.
Sure, everything is relative. But the article makes it sound that 42 year old single women should be "celebrated". And that is complete and utter nonsense.zekko said:Anyway, maybe these 42 year olds look like curdled milk to you now at 30. But give it another 20 or 30 years, and you might start to like more of what you see. Tastes can change over time. If you live to full life expectancy, you're going to be spending more time on the other side of 30 than you've seen so far.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Tictac said:Scar & Zec,
Most of the pups here couldn't handle a real woman.
I get proof of that with some of the women I see that laugh at their patheticism.