"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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in pictures with other women on social media good or not?

derby1

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i won a white collar boxing fight the other week and recently when in pubs a few girls have took pictures of just me and them and uploaded them to social media this isnt a problem to me however im wondering if its doing me any favours or not ?

the pictures are coming from a place of authenticity... not, setup to make people jealous

but there still seems to be mixed opinions on what it may "concur in the mind" of potential future women?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dude99

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Psychologist did an experiment about 3 years ago, where they took pictures of guys and they had a group of 100 women judge and rate the guys for attractiveness.

The women rated the guys more attractive when the picture contained a guy with another woman, rather than just by themselves.

The same women found the guys even more attractive when it appeared the women in the picture were looking at or smiling at the guy in the picture.

The fact the men appeared unavailable made them more attractive.

So i would say your pics with other chicks will only help your cause. Remember kitty katz kompete.
 

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ok didnt know if it struck the "i dont want him if everyones had him" seeing as how loopy they all seem to becoming
 

TheMonkeyKing

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Two points, in the usual way:

1) Just as in actual reality, make sure your body language and the way you carry yourself is on point.
-For example, no leaning in; if anything they should be leaning in to you.
-Practice genuine smiling; fake smiles will just show you trying to, but not really having a good time.

2) If you don't want to be too closely associated with someone, don't be seen with them too often. This happened to me recently when I saw a girl a couple of weeks running. She posts her whole life online; then all of a sudden, after a couple of weeks, everyone's jumped to the conclusion that we're an item.

Your social media, if you engage with it, is a reflection of your real life, no matter how mush you try to tart it up. Social media doesn't define the lifestyle; the lifestyle defines the social media.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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RangerMIke

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Women prefer men that have other women in their lives. Not only are you more attractive to them, she also has to work harder for your attention, so she will value you more.
 

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Yes, that's been known forever....if you have females around you, especially very attractive one's, that works in your favor. Be nice to all females you come across, are willing to get to know you - even if you don't "like" them they may have friends they could introduce you to that will tickle your fancy.
 
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