"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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in pictures with other women on social media good or not?

derby1

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i won a white collar boxing fight the other week and recently when in pubs a few girls have took pictures of just me and them and uploaded them to social media this isnt a problem to me however im wondering if its doing me any favours or not ?

the pictures are coming from a place of authenticity... not, setup to make people jealous

but there still seems to be mixed opinions on what it may "concur in the mind" of potential future women?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dude99

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Psychologist did an experiment about 3 years ago, where they took pictures of guys and they had a group of 100 women judge and rate the guys for attractiveness.

The women rated the guys more attractive when the picture contained a guy with another woman, rather than just by themselves.

The same women found the guys even more attractive when it appeared the women in the picture were looking at or smiling at the guy in the picture.

The fact the men appeared unavailable made them more attractive.

So i would say your pics with other chicks will only help your cause. Remember kitty katz kompete.
 

derby1

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ok didnt know if it struck the "i dont want him if everyones had him" seeing as how loopy they all seem to becoming
 

TheMonkeyKing

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Two points, in the usual way:

1) Just as in actual reality, make sure your body language and the way you carry yourself is on point.
-For example, no leaning in; if anything they should be leaning in to you.
-Practice genuine smiling; fake smiles will just show you trying to, but not really having a good time.

2) If you don't want to be too closely associated with someone, don't be seen with them too often. This happened to me recently when I saw a girl a couple of weeks running. She posts her whole life online; then all of a sudden, after a couple of weeks, everyone's jumped to the conclusion that we're an item.

Your social media, if you engage with it, is a reflection of your real life, no matter how mush you try to tart it up. Social media doesn't define the lifestyle; the lifestyle defines the social media.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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RangerMIke

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Women prefer men that have other women in their lives. Not only are you more attractive to them, she also has to work harder for your attention, so she will value you more.
 

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Yes, that's been known forever....if you have females around you, especially very attractive one's, that works in your favor. Be nice to all females you come across, are willing to get to know you - even if you don't "like" them they may have friends they could introduce you to that will tickle your fancy.
 
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