You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Fair enough, I was being too specific by saying bartender and club owner but that's because those are the main avenues I could come up with.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
More likeI could imagine a 22 year old Pre-med Doctor coming to sosuave;
'Im planning to be a Brian surgeon in San Francisco but have limited sexual experience and want to have sex with good looking girls. What does sosuave, the site known for its secrets of attracting, dating,and having sex with girls, recommend?'
'Give up everything you know in San Francisco, your friends, your family, your school, your connections. Grab a plane ticket and move to Miami. Don't worry about being a surgeon. Go and pour drinks at a nightclub for some 23 year old girl who has slept with 7 guys and is looking for validation. You'll get the experience you'll need and at the same time you will be bringing massive value to the world.'
