"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In Order of Importance

joey2times

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These are the things you need to do to be attractive to females. They are listed in their order of importance.

1- Don't be overweight. I don't care how nice your teeth are, how well you dress, how good you smell, how much money you have...If you're more than 50lbs overweight you will not be considered attractive by the majority of females. This truly is the most important factor. Unlike men, women have a much wider variety of what they consider attractive. One thing they universally consider unattractive is an overweight man. Trust me on this one. I've said it before, and I'll say it again. Losing weight is the single most effective thing you can do to improve your looks if you're overweight.

2- Have the right hairstyle. Women have preferences. Some women like bald men, some like men with long, thick hair. I would suggest going with a shorter, well groomed look. By doing this, you'll appeal to a greater number of women. If you're going bald, I wouldn't suggest going with transplants or hairpieces. If you keep it neat and short, you'll look your best.

3-Dress well. How you dress says much more about you than how you look. A man in a well tailored suit emits an aire of importance about him. Now obviously you can't wear a suit every day, but you can upgrade your wardrobe to something stylish and that fits you well. They may not come right out and tell you, but most women definitely notice that you dress above the fray.

4- Clean, white, straight teeth. Some of you probably think this should be higher on the list, but I'll tell you this. If you're fat, with male pattern baldness and dress like a slob, having perfect teeth won't mean shyt. Women often over-emphasize the teeth issue. They'll say it's VERY important to them. But show them an overweight, ugly dude with great teeth, and I'll bet you they won't think he's attractive.

5-Smelling nice. This is a biggie that almost any guy can do. If you invest 40 or 50 bucks in a good cologne, I can guaruntee you'll get some female attention. Again, if you're butt ugly and don't take care of yourself in other areas, smelling great isn't going to make you desirable, but it won't hurt either.

6- Shoes. I'm not kidding on this one fellas. WOMEN WILL NOTICE YOUR SHOES!!! As guys, we don't put near the importance on shoes that women do. As a matter of fact, some women will actually disqualify a guy for having messed up footwear. I know this sounds utterly ridiculous to most men, but to women it's a big deal. Buy a nice pair of leather shoes, and keep them shined.

7-Your nails. Like shoes, women will notice your hands. It gives a certain polished look if a guy takes the time to keep his nails neat and trim. While some of you may not think it's manly, I see nothing wrong in getting a professional manicure. It's the little things that count.



That's all I can think of right now, but it gives a good general overview of what you can do to improve your looks and your chances of bagging the elusive HB.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You left out being masculine! :rolleyes:
 

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I agree, leaving aside a guy's intrinsic physical looks and age, appearance causes attraction in females. This list is just the bare minimum you need to get your foot in the door with most attractive women. Add to that body language, facial expressions and expressiveness, and voice tone and being articulate. Those are the fundamentals then you can go into word choice, tactics, techniques, social prrof and social value, money, and other more superficial things.
 
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