"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In Order of Importance

joey2times

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These are the things you need to do to be attractive to females. They are listed in their order of importance.

1- Don't be overweight. I don't care how nice your teeth are, how well you dress, how good you smell, how much money you have...If you're more than 50lbs overweight you will not be considered attractive by the majority of females. This truly is the most important factor. Unlike men, women have a much wider variety of what they consider attractive. One thing they universally consider unattractive is an overweight man. Trust me on this one. I've said it before, and I'll say it again. Losing weight is the single most effective thing you can do to improve your looks if you're overweight.

2- Have the right hairstyle. Women have preferences. Some women like bald men, some like men with long, thick hair. I would suggest going with a shorter, well groomed look. By doing this, you'll appeal to a greater number of women. If you're going bald, I wouldn't suggest going with transplants or hairpieces. If you keep it neat and short, you'll look your best.

3-Dress well. How you dress says much more about you than how you look. A man in a well tailored suit emits an aire of importance about him. Now obviously you can't wear a suit every day, but you can upgrade your wardrobe to something stylish and that fits you well. They may not come right out and tell you, but most women definitely notice that you dress above the fray.

4- Clean, white, straight teeth. Some of you probably think this should be higher on the list, but I'll tell you this. If you're fat, with male pattern baldness and dress like a slob, having perfect teeth won't mean shyt. Women often over-emphasize the teeth issue. They'll say it's VERY important to them. But show them an overweight, ugly dude with great teeth, and I'll bet you they won't think he's attractive.

5-Smelling nice. This is a biggie that almost any guy can do. If you invest 40 or 50 bucks in a good cologne, I can guaruntee you'll get some female attention. Again, if you're butt ugly and don't take care of yourself in other areas, smelling great isn't going to make you desirable, but it won't hurt either.

6- Shoes. I'm not kidding on this one fellas. WOMEN WILL NOTICE YOUR SHOES!!! As guys, we don't put near the importance on shoes that women do. As a matter of fact, some women will actually disqualify a guy for having messed up footwear. I know this sounds utterly ridiculous to most men, but to women it's a big deal. Buy a nice pair of leather shoes, and keep them shined.

7-Your nails. Like shoes, women will notice your hands. It gives a certain polished look if a guy takes the time to keep his nails neat and trim. While some of you may not think it's manly, I see nothing wrong in getting a professional manicure. It's the little things that count.



That's all I can think of right now, but it gives a good general overview of what you can do to improve your looks and your chances of bagging the elusive HB.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You left out being masculine! :rolleyes:
 

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I agree, leaving aside a guy's intrinsic physical looks and age, appearance causes attraction in females. This list is just the bare minimum you need to get your foot in the door with most attractive women. Add to that body language, facial expressions and expressiveness, and voice tone and being articulate. Those are the fundamentals then you can go into word choice, tactics, techniques, social prrof and social value, money, and other more superficial things.
 
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