"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In online dating, ignorance is virtual bliss

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Very interesting article on MSNBC.com. Some interesting research findings that may help people looking for suitable, and compatible partners online.

Give it a read:


In online dating, ignorance is virtual bliss
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17122392/
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The article hits the nail right on the head. Online dating is a strange alternative universe in which every criterion is blown way out of proportion by too many people.
 
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What a surprise most women are dissapointed.. could it be many women online are gold diggers looking for their rich knight to come riding on his horse?

The last girl I met online was interested until she found out I worked 60 hours a week to pay for my house and bills. She lost interest after that I'm telling you.

In all my years I have never met a girlfriend online. A lay yes (a few times) but never a girlfriend.

I should have lied and said I don't work and I would have been golden. But then how do I explain what I do with myself all week?
 

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I wouldn't be surprised if there aren't as many single guys in existence who make over $100K per year as there are women whose online profiles list $100K per year as the minimum income for their "match." :rolleyes:
 
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Bonhomme said:
I wouldn't be surprised if there aren't as many single guys in existence who make over $100K per year as there are women whose online profiles list $100K per year as the minimum income for their "match." :rolleyes:
Yeah this last chic I met kept going on about how she has an easy life right now and only has to work a few hours a day. She travels all around the world. On who's dime?

Yeah I wonder what she was after :rolleyes:

Once they get used to that easy life they will never want to go back.

She will probably marry some fat slob for the money. She needed a green card too.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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