"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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In online dating, ignorance is virtual bliss

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Very interesting article on MSNBC.com. Some interesting research findings that may help people looking for suitable, and compatible partners online.

Give it a read:


In online dating, ignorance is virtual bliss
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17122392/
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The article hits the nail right on the head. Online dating is a strange alternative universe in which every criterion is blown way out of proportion by too many people.
 
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What a surprise most women are dissapointed.. could it be many women online are gold diggers looking for their rich knight to come riding on his horse?

The last girl I met online was interested until she found out I worked 60 hours a week to pay for my house and bills. She lost interest after that I'm telling you.

In all my years I have never met a girlfriend online. A lay yes (a few times) but never a girlfriend.

I should have lied and said I don't work and I would have been golden. But then how do I explain what I do with myself all week?
 

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I wouldn't be surprised if there aren't as many single guys in existence who make over $100K per year as there are women whose online profiles list $100K per year as the minimum income for their "match." :rolleyes:
 
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Bonhomme said:
I wouldn't be surprised if there aren't as many single guys in existence who make over $100K per year as there are women whose online profiles list $100K per year as the minimum income for their "match." :rolleyes:
Yeah this last chic I met kept going on about how she has an easy life right now and only has to work a few hours a day. She travels all around the world. On who's dime?

Yeah I wonder what she was after :rolleyes:

Once they get used to that easy life they will never want to go back.

She will probably marry some fat slob for the money. She needed a green card too.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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