"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Elnihilisto

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I have this girl in my class,she is shy,kind,caring etc.The type of person which seems like an ideal date,she is pretty hot and we seem to click,but the only problem is her friends,some hot divas who change bf more often than underwear,so the problem consists of the fact that im pretty scared to date her,because of her friends.I can see them taking advantage of her and trying to find out what we talk or do,and the relationship would have "multiple partners".I must add that I get along with her so called "friends" but nothing extraordinary.Should I date or not?
P.S:her friends are really ruthless when it comes to guys,in a feminist way
Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Poop1337

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Start ****ing her and take it from there. You are familiar with the concept of hanging out and drinking then having one thing lead to another aka your **** in her holes. Decide if dating is a good idea after you've been screwing for a while and don't go all oneitus spin plates
 

Ace9

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Don't give her friends any energy, go after what you want.
 

JohnChops

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youre already thinking of dating her and yet you havent even asked her out on a date?! Holy hell youre thinking way to far ahead of yourself and it will only get you into trouble. Never see every "cute, funny, hot " girl as a potential "GF" you only see them as just another girl, nothing else, at first. Once you put her on a pedestal you are going to lose control.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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