"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well im 15, and im 270 pounds, im chubby yes...but im not so fat that its hanging everywhere and its all sloppy and ****. Im really well groomed and i keep my look really clean. I have a pretty decent face, i do workout, i have a somewhat big chest and big arms and shoulders, I basicly need to get lean and slim my belly! That the biggest thing i need right now, i hate having a big belly and nasty love handles, lol, honestly i dont care what ppl say about me, it doesnt stop me from meeting gorgeous girls at school, but i need to do this for personal reasons, i want to be healthy and fit, no more love handles ARGG!!:up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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read the "where to start" sticky. and give us a couple days of what your diet looks like.
In the meantime just do some skipping every morning before breakfast
 

cuzza

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How tall are you?

I wouldn't class 270 pounds as 'chubby'...
 

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Do you like fruits & peanuts?

Pound those down around the clock(up until 1-2 hours till bedtime) and watch yourself slim down in no time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wolf116 said:
In the meantime just do some skipping every morning before breakfast
Are you seriously telling a 270 lb man to skip?
 

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HandyAndy said:
and blinkwatt, i heard peanuts were fattening and gives you pimples
Fatty foods don't make you fat,food with ingredients added make you fat.

As for peanuts giving you pimples,could I guess,everyone different. I eat at least 1.5cups of unsalted peanuts a day and my face doesn't break out ever.
 

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blinkwatt said:
Fatty foods don't make you fat,food with ingredients added make you fat.

As for peanuts giving you pimples,could I guess,everyone different. I eat at least 1.5cups of unsalted peanuts a day and my face doesn't break out ever.
However, there are better nut choices. :)

Peanut allergies are far from uncommon - Andy, try almonds, walnuts, brazils etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cuzza

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HandyAndy said:
haha im 6 foot 2 cuzza
and blinkwatt, i heard peanuts were fattening and gives you pimples
You'd still have to be built like a brick ****house for me to still accept it as chubby lol. But still, you've come to the right place.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
However, there are better nut choices. :)

Peanut allergies are far from uncommon - Andy, try almonds, walnuts, brazils etc.
Yeah true.

For me the only nuts I like are unsalted peanuts. I don't really care for almonds,walnuts and such,I know others will swear by them as I do peanuts.

To each their own.
 

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mrRuckus said:
Are you seriously telling a 270 lb man to skip?
I started skipping every day when i started boxing conditioning and found it to be the best form of cardio ever. Very easy on the joints, builds your calfs for jumping and sprinting. My fat just fell off.
 
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