"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jamesmyrtle22

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there's this girl that i've been talking to for about 2-3 months now, and everything is going great. i got her number, been using the kino, i've even heard from others that she likes me...the only thing that stands in my way is that she has a boyfriend, i've heard he's an a$$hole and she even said that things aren't going well. one of my friends said that she said "i wish i didn't have a boyfriend cause i'd be dating him." how do i go about convincing her that i'm better then her bf and that i'd treat her better too???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your setting yourself up man... even if she leaves him, there is the "rebound" issues, "talking/missing x" issues... she might be painting you into someone your not while she spending with other guy, you might dispont her, she might disappoint you..

basically this girl has baggage... why would you do that to yourself..

think about it.... why dont you have a girlfriend and have HER chase you and be okay while you banging another girl and she wait for you to come around..

Listen.. start getting new and more numbers, keep your options open, if you get with her, okay.. if not.. so what you got others lined up.. but definatly dont throw all your eggs into one basket..

Conclusion.... If a girl will really want you she will dump her x, and make sure to let you know she availabe... Keep your options open.. sounds like this girl is not too sure, and is going to drain you of your emotion...
 
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Congratulations, you are friendzoned.

Harsh, but true.

Deal with it, learn from it, and forget about her and move on.

And stop getting bent out of shape over the girls who have boyfriends. It's the most surefire way to get friendzoned that I know of.
 
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