"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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in need of some help

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jamesmyrtle22

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there's this girl that i've been talking to for about 2-3 months now, and everything is going great. i got her number, been using the kino, i've even heard from others that she likes me...the only thing that stands in my way is that she has a boyfriend, i've heard he's an a$$hole and she even said that things aren't going well. one of my friends said that she said "i wish i didn't have a boyfriend cause i'd be dating him." how do i go about convincing her that i'm better then her bf and that i'd treat her better too???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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TruthHurts

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Your setting yourself up man... even if she leaves him, there is the "rebound" issues, "talking/missing x" issues... she might be painting you into someone your not while she spending with other guy, you might dispont her, she might disappoint you..

basically this girl has baggage... why would you do that to yourself..

think about it.... why dont you have a girlfriend and have HER chase you and be okay while you banging another girl and she wait for you to come around..

Listen.. start getting new and more numbers, keep your options open, if you get with her, okay.. if not.. so what you got others lined up.. but definatly dont throw all your eggs into one basket..

Conclusion.... If a girl will really want you she will dump her x, and make sure to let you know she availabe... Keep your options open.. sounds like this girl is not too sure, and is going to drain you of your emotion...
 
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Vypros

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Congratulations, you are friendzoned.

Harsh, but true.

Deal with it, learn from it, and forget about her and move on.

And stop getting bent out of shape over the girls who have boyfriends. It's the most surefire way to get friendzoned that I know of.
 
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