"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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In need of some advice.

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We'll I could go on forever about this, but I'll make it short and sweet so you guys don't have to read a ton of garbage.

Theres a girl that basically loves me... shes very good looking so I'm obviously attracted to her. But there are a few things that are bothering me.

Her parents are control freaks like no other. Thats not what bothers me though.. I understand that mothers and father worry about their daughters more than their sons but the problem is she doesn't do anything about it... anything they say goes. If they say she has to be home at 8 o clock (which happens a lot) she doesn't even bothering asking if she could stay out later... she just agrees and goes on with it. They also call her about every 5 mintues and she calls them just as much.

I'm coming to the point where I'm not even sure if hanging out with her is worth it if shes just going to let her parents decide her every move.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How old is she? If she's younger than 21 it could just be a phase. Protective parents can be very annoying, but is sometimes a good thing when it comes to women.
 
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Who cares if she doens't question her parents? Maybe she used to then realised it was pointless so now she just agrees. Maybe you can point out that you don't like her phoning her parents all the time.
 
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