Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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In Need of a Good Deed? Help This Guy...

iqqi

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I just came across this while browsing some local sites, and actually remembered reading about this in the NEWS last year (I am somewhat local to the area where it happened). So yes, this is a true story, not a scam. I remember getting teary eyed reading the paper, because it was just such a sad story. Reading what has happened since... well, I don't really even know what to say. Just help if you can, they aren't even asking a lot.

Click here.

I feel like this is a great place to post this, because who can't relate to what has happened here? I plan on posting in other places, but I feel like this forum is actually the best place for it.

If you want to make sure it is for real, just google the guy's name, the stories will come up, and the lady who is hosting the story is a realtor in the area where it happened, a family friend I believe. Part of me feels like it is no way to live, but it has only been a year, so who knows.

Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Interceptor

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Done.

Sometimes we have to give back.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr.Positive

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Interceptor said:
Done.

Sometimes we have to give back.
Agreed, though there's some on the mature forum that will view us as being selfish....

Seriously, I remember reading about this story some time back. It's moving, and just goes to remind each one of us, to be thankful for what we have. To be grateful that we are well to enjoy life.
 
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