In need of a boost....

[Ares]

Ok here's the problem, Im bored with girls.....Im tired of picking up girls, tired of meeting girls, tired of girlfriends and so on, and son on. And it makes me mad at myself, nowadays if I see a HB I dont go all afc, but neither dj....its more like, "hmm...nice ass, pretty face, I wonder whats for dinner?" I mean, WTF!!!! I used to love the game, every party, schoolday and so on was a blast....it feels like Im turning into a non-sexual guy.....And like I said its not the inner afc that gets in the way, Im about as confident as a person can be, I smile laugh and in general Im just beeing happy.....So why doesnt girls interest me anymore.....????
I actualy have to make myself pick up a girl, not: "oh she's so pretty, I could never get her" its more like: why bother, she's just gonna be exactly the same as everyone else". I dont hate girls or anything, their just not interesting anymore......
So does anyone have a good advice for how to be more interested or is my only option to go live in a cave and not see girls for a long time.......

 

[WingS]

i found myself feeling this recently, just means that girls arent at the forefront of your life anymore, its a good thing IMO

 

[TTAG]

hey my swedish friend, its all cool.

you know by having this attitude its making you into more of DJ, because girls are indifferent to you now.

but yeah back to the point, this has happened to me too. i have been like this for about, 8-10 months. whats going on?

just after all the hurt, suffering, pain, loss, anguish, anger and other bad shyt that the last few girls put me thru, i really cant be bothered to chase punani.......

 

[Ares]

thanx...

allright, so its a good thing....now that you mention it, this mindset has not really affected my love life, in a good way....the path to becoming a true DJ is both hard and sometimes confusing...oh and TTAG, Im norwegian not swedish...That would be like me saying you where from New Zealand, anyways thanks...

 

[Evil-Rom]

It's all good. I was in that "Phase" before, didn't give a sh*t bout girls at all for some reason. Just wanted to HAVE FUN!

But you know whats fun? Getting a girl to fall for you.

I dont know why, but if I'm interested in a girl and I get her interested in me, I suddenly LOSE ALL INTEREST! Bleh, happened at least 3 times already. It's like, if there's no challenge, its boring, and I wanna move on to something more challenging...

 

[Ares]

exactly!!!!

That's a big part of my problem, it seems to me that I only go for girls that are really difficult to pick up, smooth talk and so on...and when they start to like/love me I find someone else because they just dont do anything for me anymore....the thing that bugs me is that this is supposed to be a female line of thought: oh, she thinks im numero uno, so wtf am I doing with here......for me its like, no challenge=no interest...
seems Im turning into a real *****

 

[Speed Demond]

Dude man....sounds liek your spending a lil too much time thinking about girls and stuff....I say if you get like that it's time to take a break and go out try more adventurouse stuff like sky diving or something.....But yeah You defenitly need to take a break off the game.