"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mustfirstregister

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I'm really frustrated I brought already 5 diff girls into my room. I couldn't finish any of them. What do you guys usually do to fclose them when you are in your room? I already master #close, day2, taking them to my room. But I still need this last step to become a PUA. Please help
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Vice

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Why the obsession with "becoming a PUA"? Why does getting laid give you the title of "PUA"?

Anyway, you need to give more details. Judging by the way you write, you seem like you might be the kind of guy who rushes things.

But the skill set is progressive; it's normal to mess it up on each stage. Just like when you could get a number but not a day 2, and then you could get a day 2 but not get them to your room. You're on the normal, right track, you just need to mess it up with a few more girls and you'll naturally auto-correct.

The faster you fail with more girls, the quicker you'll arrive at success. I'm pretty confident that you can get it done by the end of this week if you push your current skill set hard.
 

Iceberg

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mustfirstregister said:
But I still need this last step to become a PUA. Please help
Vice said:
Why the obsession with "becoming a PUA"? Why does getting laid give you the title of "PUA"?
I agree with Vice. What kind of weirdo sets out to be a "PUA"? That's really gay, and I almost don't want to help you.

Anyway, it seems like you're not building the right amount of comfort with these girls. Perhaps you're rushing it. Normally, by the time a girl gets into my bedroom, she knows what's going to happen. So it's just a matter of leaning in and going for the kiss.

So you're doing something that might appear too eager for these girls.
 

MM92

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Iceberg said:
I agree with Vice. What kind of weirdo sets out to be a "PUA"? That's really gay, and I almost don't want to help you.

Anyway, it seems like you're not building the right amount of comfort with these girls. Perhaps you're rushing it. Normally, by the time a girl gets into my bedroom, she knows what's going to happen. So it's just a matter of leaning in and going for the kiss.

So you're doing something that might appear too eager for these girls.
Exactly, if a girl is in your bedroom 90% of the time they want to ****. Just go in for the kiss and things will escalate. Please tell me you have been actually making a move on them?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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