"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In my nervous self, I don't know if she's into me or not?

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Right lads, there's this fit mixed-race gal on my Uni course - straight 7.

Noticed her from week 1, but was never attracted till maybe a month ago when we were in this room, busy with this presentation we had to do.

So I'm in this small, cramped room with 3 other people. After 10 mins this gal comes in. I offer her my seat, she politely declines and decides to sit on the floor next to me.

We're all discussing the topic of our presentation and I'm holding this piece of paper when all of a sudden the girl points something on it and then for some reason unbeknownst to me she lays the side of her hand on my lap for a good 2-3 seconds.

Later on that same day she sits next to me in this lecture, when she could've sat any where else.

The next day we're in another lecture. Towards of the end of it I cracked a joke, every one laughed, I started to pack and then looked up at her only to make contact with her and smile with her for 3-4 seconds.

Signs of attraction?

Ta lads.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GotED?

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According to The Pook and Anti-Dump's Machine:

Never kills yourself worrying if a woman/girl is into you or not (that's a woman's job to worry about if you are interested in HER!).

If she shows interest (it doesn't matter according to Pook) - you have only one job to do: FIND OUT

That is, by asking the question 'What's Your Phone Number?'

A man TAKES what he sees and likes. A man will die a thousand death trying to FIGURE OUT if a woman is interested - you will FAIL.


Exodus
 

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GotED? said:
According to The Pook and Anti-Dump's Machine:

Never kills yourself worrying if a woman/girl is into you or not (that's a woman's job to worry about if you are interested in HER!).

If she shows interest - you have only one job to do: FIND OUT

That is, by asking the question 'What's Your Phone Number?'


Exodus
I doubt asking for her number straight up is going to lead me any where .... besides, I've already got it.
 

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Dr. Dawg said:
I doubt asking for her number straight up is going to lead me any where .... besides, I've already got it.
Come on, Dude.

Get some confidence and backbone.

Ask her out on a date then.

Don't make us walk you through every step.

FIND OUT for yourself. Nobody knows the answer but HER.


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GotED? said:
Come on, Dude.


FIND OUT for yourself. Nobody knows the answer but HER.


Exodus

Obviously not .... I'm asking if it's a sign of attraction or not.

:moon:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Aye she's up for it. Make your move before some other guy does
 
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