"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In LTR - concerns over girlfriend's guy friend

Doctor Europeo

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She is capable of cheating, not worth anything lognterm. Make a threesome with both girls and then break off the relationship.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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devilkingx2

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I understand the "it's not cheating if it's with a girl" sentiment, but:

1. It doesn't apply if she's doing it secretly/behind your back and hiding it

2. It Doesn't apply if you don't get to watch/pics and video/join in

Like for example, if your girl lets you pimp her out to randoms for cash, that's totally different than finding out your girl sucks c0ck for crack on the side when she's not with you
 
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