"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In love with mutiple girls and honeymoon horrors.

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How does a guy deal with being in love with multiple girls and getting married? And then the honeymoon is a absolute mess in every case no matter what he does. Divorce seems like the only option probably from the female catching him cheating and stealing all his wealth lol.

Well the honeymoon ain't the same as the big day and before hand thats why its a mess. I experienced this tonight in a different fashion sort of so i'm going delay kissing and all stuff now and watching educational movies on net with bill stiller its funny and its true. Can't remember the name of the movie but its spot on.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How does a guy deal with being in love with multiple girls and getting married? And then the honeymoon is a absolute mess in every case no matter what he does. Divorce seems like the only option probably from the female catching him cheating and stealing all his wealth lol.

Well the honeymoon ain't the same as the big day and before hand thats why its a mess. I experienced this tonight in a different fashion sort of so i'm going delay kissing and all stuff now and watching educational movies on net with bill stiller its funny and its true. Can't remember the name of the movie but its spot on.
1599776761299.jpg what are you even talking about?
 
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