"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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In Love With Love

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While talking with her today, I realize how much I really LOVE the feelings she produces in me, which are not "good" feelings.

I've invested so much time and effort into this ONE girl, I fear I've fallen trap to my own understanding of attraction. The more you invest the greater the attraction felt, and connection felt.

Is it worth it to forget her?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I read the first paragraph....all I can say is, I pity you if you actually talk like this in real life.
 
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Oneitis is a terrible state to be in.
L777 said:
I read the first paragraph....all I can say is, I pity you if you actually talk like this in real life.
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I liked it!
 
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Love is a beautiful thing. If you can find it you shouldn't let a bunch of 15 year old keyboard studs laugh at you. Be who you are. Not every male was meant to wear makeup and fuzzy hats. Well, maybe gay men...BUT...those DJ gurus could never be gay. Nope. No way. They couldn't be doing what they do so that they could make money. No. They wanna help sad little men in Florida and Manchester.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don't fully understand... did you two split up? Or are you currently in a relationship with her?

There's nothing wrong with being in love, in fact it's one of the high points of life. Don't listen to these morons and think there's something wrong with you for feeling this way. If they had found love, they wouldn't be posting on some internet forum dedicated to picking up chicks...unless of course it's to help the lost and confused ones out there. No advice is better than bad advice, though. It's best to go with your gut instinct.

If you and her are together, enjoy it. All those cheesy love songs will start to make sense to you. If you two just broke up, give yourself some time to get over it and get back in the game.
 
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