"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In Love With Love

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While talking with her today, I realize how much I really LOVE the feelings she produces in me, which are not "good" feelings.

I've invested so much time and effort into this ONE girl, I fear I've fallen trap to my own understanding of attraction. The more you invest the greater the attraction felt, and connection felt.

Is it worth it to forget her?

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I read the first paragraph....all I can say is, I pity you if you actually talk like this in real life.
 
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Oneitis is a terrible state to be in.
L777 said:
I read the first paragraph....all I can say is, I pity you if you actually talk like this in real life.
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I liked it!
 
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Love is a beautiful thing. If you can find it you shouldn't let a bunch of 15 year old keyboard studs laugh at you. Be who you are. Not every male was meant to wear makeup and fuzzy hats. Well, maybe gay men...BUT...those DJ gurus could never be gay. Nope. No way. They couldn't be doing what they do so that they could make money. No. They wanna help sad little men in Florida and Manchester.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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I don't fully understand... did you two split up? Or are you currently in a relationship with her?

There's nothing wrong with being in love, in fact it's one of the high points of life. Don't listen to these morons and think there's something wrong with you for feeling this way. If they had found love, they wouldn't be posting on some internet forum dedicated to picking up chicks...unless of course it's to help the lost and confused ones out there. No advice is better than bad advice, though. It's best to go with your gut instinct.

If you and her are together, enjoy it. All those cheesy love songs will start to make sense to you. If you two just broke up, give yourself some time to get over it and get back in the game.
 
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