So, im in love with this girl I work with. Im 21 and she is 22. I started a new job about 9 months ago, and it was her job to train me up etc, and as we sat opposite eachother we started to get on well and really hit it of as mates. At the time I was in a relationship and didn’t really look at her as someone I fancied. But as I was breaking up with my ex and getting over her, I really connected with me collegue, I spoke to her about how things was with my ex etc and she listened and gave me advice.
Since then, we meet up from time to time and go for a drink or whatever… just as mates. And Every minute I spend with her I feel myself falling for her more and more.
But here is the problem… she is engaged and living with her partner. All though at first this seems like a rather big problem, I don’t think it is. You see, over the last few months she has become increasingly unhappy in her relationship and even moved back to her parents house for a week to "get away" from her problems. During that week we went out and spent a lot of time together, and I was just there for her when she needed me, listening to her problems etc.
Like I said we get on really well, and she has admitted that im the type of guy she would usually go for and that her current boyfriend is the complete opposite of what she likes in a man. I obviously havent told her what I think about her, but it should be quite easy to see that I do like her. I mean I flirt with her (as she does me) and drop suttle hints here and there. Generally getting a laugh in return.
So where do I go from here?? Went she returned home last week, she said that she is gonna see how things go with him and give it a month or so. She told me last night that the last week was worse than b4 she moved out, and if it wasn’t for the fact that they live together etc she would have finished it buy now. I've no doubt in my mind that they will brake up sooner or later. But what do should I do for now??
Perhaps I should also mention that I had a short spell with one her best mates. Probably not the wisest things to do.
Since then, we meet up from time to time and go for a drink or whatever… just as mates. And Every minute I spend with her I feel myself falling for her more and more.
But here is the problem… she is engaged and living with her partner. All though at first this seems like a rather big problem, I don’t think it is. You see, over the last few months she has become increasingly unhappy in her relationship and even moved back to her parents house for a week to "get away" from her problems. During that week we went out and spent a lot of time together, and I was just there for her when she needed me, listening to her problems etc.
Like I said we get on really well, and she has admitted that im the type of guy she would usually go for and that her current boyfriend is the complete opposite of what she likes in a man. I obviously havent told her what I think about her, but it should be quite easy to see that I do like her. I mean I flirt with her (as she does me) and drop suttle hints here and there. Generally getting a laugh in return.
So where do I go from here?? Went she returned home last week, she said that she is gonna see how things go with him and give it a month or so. She told me last night that the last week was worse than b4 she moved out, and if it wasn’t for the fact that they live together etc she would have finished it buy now. I've no doubt in my mind that they will brake up sooner or later. But what do should I do for now??
Perhaps I should also mention that I had a short spell with one her best mates. Probably not the wisest things to do.