"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In-Field Workshops

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Spirit Fingers

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Hey man,

I haven't really taken a workshop, but much of my improvement is due to when I interned with Vincent and Sebastian of theApproach.

Before, I could barely get phone numbers. Now, I have three MLTRs and I am getting an increasing number of one-night stands. I also just became an instructor for theApproach.

If you want to read more about me or theApproach, check out my blog (The Sex Revolution Blog). I'm in the process of doing a write-up of our last workshop, with pictures.

-Dan
 

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Congradulations on the job!

Are they training you now, or are you just teaching what you know? How does one go about and getting a job like this one?

How does theApproach's in-field workshops compare with the competition?
 

B-Lemond

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SpiritFingers said:
Hey man,

I haven't really taken a workshop, but much of my improvement is due to when I interned with Vincent and Sebastian of theApproach.

Before, I could barely get phone numbers. Now, I have three MLTRs and I am getting an increasing number of one-night stands. I also just became an instructor for theApproach.

If you want to read more about me or theApproach, check out my blog (The Sex Revolution Blog). I'm in the process of doing a write-up of our last workshop, with pictures.

-Dan
Congradulations on the job Dan!

Are they training you now, or are you just teaching what you know? How does one go about and getting a job like this one?

How does theApproach's in-field workshops compare with the competition?
 
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