"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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In-Field Workshops

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Spirit Fingers

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Hey man,

I haven't really taken a workshop, but much of my improvement is due to when I interned with Vincent and Sebastian of theApproach.

Before, I could barely get phone numbers. Now, I have three MLTRs and I am getting an increasing number of one-night stands. I also just became an instructor for theApproach.

If you want to read more about me or theApproach, check out my blog (The Sex Revolution Blog). I'm in the process of doing a write-up of our last workshop, with pictures.

-Dan
 

B-Lemond

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Congradulations on the job!

Are they training you now, or are you just teaching what you know? How does one go about and getting a job like this one?

How does theApproach's in-field workshops compare with the competition?
 

B-Lemond

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SpiritFingers said:
Hey man,

I haven't really taken a workshop, but much of my improvement is due to when I interned with Vincent and Sebastian of theApproach.

Before, I could barely get phone numbers. Now, I have three MLTRs and I am getting an increasing number of one-night stands. I also just became an instructor for theApproach.

If you want to read more about me or theApproach, check out my blog (The Sex Revolution Blog). I'm in the process of doing a write-up of our last workshop, with pictures.

-Dan
Congradulations on the job Dan!

Are they training you now, or are you just teaching what you know? How does one go about and getting a job like this one?

How does theApproach's in-field workshops compare with the competition?
 
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