"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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In dire need of help

Aznkid1030

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I was wondering... would it be ok if a friend helped me find out how a person felt about me ..because i like this person but i dont know how to approach her and tell her how i feel. I really like her. I also dont want to make it seem like I can't get any girls by myself.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best friends? NAY

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1. You need different help then you think.
2. You will probaly never get this girl.
3. NEVER tell a girl how you feel about her before atleast 5 dates are so.
4. Want to find out how she feels about you? Get her number and call her. Set up a time and place to meet. If she gives you any problems about any of these and how much of a problem then you will know.
5. read the DJ bible. IT will change how you think which is what you really need.
 

The Master Disaster

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Originally posted by Aznkid1030
I was wondering... would it be ok if a friend helped me find out how a person felt about me ..because i like this person but i dont know how to approach her and tell her how i feel. I really like her. I also dont want to make it seem like I can't get any girls by myself.
is she azn?
 
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