"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In couples u see on the streets, is girl more attractive than guy OR vice versa??

Who's the better looking one in couples?

  • GUY is the better looking one

    Votes: 3 23.1%
  • GIRL is the better looking one

    Votes: 10 76.9%

  • Total voters
    13

Demystify

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From what I've seen, the guy is usually more attractive than the girl. The guy will have a pretty good style and kept up hair but his girlfriend will be somewhat chubby looking. has anyone else noticed this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DarthAngel707

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The guy, since even if shes a hot chick she's viewed as kept/owned by the guy. And if its a fat/ugly guy with a 10, I would be even more impressed with the guy, just my take.
 

Taviii

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If you are not gay it is impossible to find the guy more attractive than the girl...
 
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Dude, this is a heterosexual forum. Let's see a show of hands of how many of you check out DUDES walking down the street and start rating their looks? That's what I thought.



And no, stuka....you don't count.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Demystify

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Wired for Sound said:
Dude, this is a heterosexual forum. Let's see a show of hands of how many of you check out DUDES walking down the street and start rating their looks? That's what I thought.
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That may be, but I think even if one's a complete heterosexual they can still tell whether a guy is closer to looking like Brad Pitt or closer to looking like Mr. Bean. And it just so happens that the guys I see with not so attractive to ugly girls are closer to looking like Brad Pitt than to Mr. Bean.
 

Deep Dish

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Social matching theory. Sociologically speaking, couples are usually of roughly equal attractiveness. There are many scientific studies which prove this, although I'm at work and am too tired of the subject to dig around for references.
 
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