"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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****in confused mayn :<

swaggadelic

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well heres the deal, I kinda had a HUGE MASSIVE one-itis for this girl 2 years ago and as we all know the story we ended up in the friendzone and ****, now that isnt a huge deal anymore for me, I came to visit this site pretty often and improved way more then I have ever expected.

the real deal is that I met this chick and I am pretty sure if I start something with her I can **** her on a daily base, because she gave me some signs and did things to me I just cant describe it doesent matter anyway, I am 19 yo and still a virgin.. I have gotten like 3-4 chances to lose my virginity but I just froze in place and didnt take any action (the girl went 90% and I fooled out not completeing the rest of the 100%), now remember the girl I had this one-itis for? she's a real hot (on a schale from 1-10) 9++ since we are in a friendzone we chill out quite often, now recently she started some heavy kino on me and it gets me all ****ed up from the inside, the girl I can start something with is really hot too, but the one-itis girl is even hotter, and since I had one-itis for her, she is a weak spot in my system. Although I know I will never get the one itis girl I keep hoping, and by hoping I keep cutting off all the other chicks that can actually take my ****in virginity.

I'm just so ****in confused people I dont know what to do, should I hang with the girl I had one-itis for on a daily base? or should I go for the girl I dont even know if I am into or not... she's hot and all that nice booty and bangers, but for some reason since the other girl started kinoing me bigtime I lost interest in other women, I'm just so afraid that if I **** the other girl (not the one-itis one) that I will be dissappointed in my first time sex, or maybe not even getting it hard :S

I hope you understand a bit..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chrom3y

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"mayn"? Your either mexican or from the south...

Anyway, if you don't think you're gonna get with your oneitis chick then why bother with her? It's only making you more desperate and clingy over time. As for losing your virginity, your first time won't really be anything "amazing", wasn't for me at least. Only thing that would be different that I can think of would be your comfort level with the girl.

I say go for he chick you seem to know you could bang, whats there to lose?

And if you want, you could always go back to being a friend with your one-itis. ;)
 

swaggadelic

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your right man, she just makes me so confused with her un-intended kino sometimes drives me crazy!

*btw, what about my comfort level?
 

Chrom3y

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I meant that you might be more comfortable getting physical with one girl over another...Idk I think I'm talking out of my a$$ now. Just go for something rather than nothing.

"Regret is worse than rejection."
 
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