"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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****in confused mayn :<

swaggadelic

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well heres the deal, I kinda had a HUGE MASSIVE one-itis for this girl 2 years ago and as we all know the story we ended up in the friendzone and ****, now that isnt a huge deal anymore for me, I came to visit this site pretty often and improved way more then I have ever expected.

the real deal is that I met this chick and I am pretty sure if I start something with her I can **** her on a daily base, because she gave me some signs and did things to me I just cant describe it doesent matter anyway, I am 19 yo and still a virgin.. I have gotten like 3-4 chances to lose my virginity but I just froze in place and didnt take any action (the girl went 90% and I fooled out not completeing the rest of the 100%), now remember the girl I had this one-itis for? she's a real hot (on a schale from 1-10) 9++ since we are in a friendzone we chill out quite often, now recently she started some heavy kino on me and it gets me all ****ed up from the inside, the girl I can start something with is really hot too, but the one-itis girl is even hotter, and since I had one-itis for her, she is a weak spot in my system. Although I know I will never get the one itis girl I keep hoping, and by hoping I keep cutting off all the other chicks that can actually take my ****in virginity.

I'm just so ****in confused people I dont know what to do, should I hang with the girl I had one-itis for on a daily base? or should I go for the girl I dont even know if I am into or not... she's hot and all that nice booty and bangers, but for some reason since the other girl started kinoing me bigtime I lost interest in other women, I'm just so afraid that if I **** the other girl (not the one-itis one) that I will be dissappointed in my first time sex, or maybe not even getting it hard :S

I hope you understand a bit..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chrom3y

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"mayn"? Your either mexican or from the south...

Anyway, if you don't think you're gonna get with your oneitis chick then why bother with her? It's only making you more desperate and clingy over time. As for losing your virginity, your first time won't really be anything "amazing", wasn't for me at least. Only thing that would be different that I can think of would be your comfort level with the girl.

I say go for he chick you seem to know you could bang, whats there to lose?

And if you want, you could always go back to being a friend with your one-itis. ;)
 

swaggadelic

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your right man, she just makes me so confused with her un-intended kino sometimes drives me crazy!

*btw, what about my comfort level?
 

Chrom3y

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I meant that you might be more comfortable getting physical with one girl over another...Idk I think I'm talking out of my a$$ now. Just go for something rather than nothing.

"Regret is worse than rejection."
 
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