"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Comeback Kid

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At college parties, assuming the girl can still think clearly and properly (so not really drunk), will an attractive girl:
-Only give her number only to guys she is interested in (assuming the guy approaches her first)?
-Give her number to any guy that asks?

What do you think? I would assume the girl PICKS who she gives her real number to, but then again she may not value her number as that big of a deal.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Comeback Kid

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IamtheAlphamale said:
Depends on the girl.
Possibly. I would figure this question would spur a bit of a debate, but apparently not (yet). My general opinion is, as long as she is not real drunk and not a very promiscuous slvt, she will only give her number to guys she has interest in.

I asked this question to a few of my friends. All but one of them felt that girls who are atleast a HB7 will only give their numbers to guys they have interest in, and where possibilities exist. Why would she want guys she doesn't care at all about calling her? My other friend (the one who differed) said that she can give any guy her number, but doesn't have to answer her phone when he calls.

I guess you can consider this part a FR, but I approached a HB8-8.5 (looks similar to actress Christina Appelgate) at a party this weekend. I recognized her from one of my lectures, so I used that as my "in." I chatted her up for a few minutes, things seemed to be going well, and then I handed her my phone (I put her name in already - shows listening skills at a loud party) so she could put her number in. The number was indeed her real number and not a fake (I called the number a few minutes later, told her it's my way of giving her my number, and I also recognized the area code, and the city she told me she lives in matches the area code). :up: She wasn't drunk and she definitely didn't appear to be promiscuous; if anything, she looked like she was trying to play hard to get.

So, any thoughts?
 

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What if she blocks your number? Eh???? Eh???? Huh???? Bet you never thought of that one :nervous:

Giving someone your number or email address is not exactly a big deal. You give the fat dude that fixes your car your phone number. There are also things called phone books. Yet, you boys think you have gotten someplace because some chub is so kind as to give you her number :crackup: . What would you do if a girl asked you if she could have YOUR number?? OMG, that must mean that she wants to rape you. I bet some of you would break into a cold sweat if that happened.

Problem is that American chubs are worshipped by you guys. As fat and squatty as they might be, they still have you at their feet. I swear, the most beautiful girls on this planet get fewer comments than a stout freshman broad does in college. I promise you that this is the case.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Potbelly

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sparky0000 said:
What if she blocks your number? Eh???? Eh???? Huh???? Bet you never thought of that one :nervous:

Giving someone your number or email address is not exactly a big deal. You give the fat dude that fixes your car your phone number. There are also things called phone books. Yet, you boys think you have gotten someplace because some chub is so kind as to give you her number :crackup: . What would you do if a girl asked you if she could have YOUR number?? OMG, that must mean that she wants to rape you. I bet some of you would break into a cold sweat if that happened.

Problem is that American chubs are worshipped by you guys. As fat and squatty as they might be, they still have you at their feet. I swear, the most beautiful girls on this planet get fewer comments than a stout freshman broad does in college. I promise you that this is the case.
lmfao good stuff. i love it when you say chubs

AHAHAHAHA CHUBS.

btw how do u block ppl from calling you?
 

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The above is generally true. In my experience college parties are all about social proof, so if you're the "raddest" guy they wil give you the number themselves or after you talk to them. I really woudn't reccomend the walking pap smears that are college girls though...especially if you want a legit girl for a serious relationship, but, if you just want to get your rocks off, that's the only purpose they serve really.
 

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Dude, why are u even asking this question? I assume ur gonna be a freshman next year? Do not overthink - ull have plently of opportunities. If you're attractive and raise your "vibrations" or "energy" ull have no problem gettin numbers.
P.S. getting a number in college does not mean too much haha
 

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Amen to that...most college girls will give their number if u just ask....even if they aren't into u.
 

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A girl once asked for my number after I told her how to get out of the dorm building, and called me the next day. So yea I think you can get just about anybody's number these days if you really want it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yeah. So, when you ask for it, make sure to be BALD about your intentions.

Seriously, a great pick up line is when a girl asks where you are from (and if she doesn't, say where you are from) and then ask "So, you never had the pleasure of dating a guy from bla bla" and if she says no then say "Oh, you missed out on a lot of fun" and if she says yes then say "Oh, you should do that again" and make sure to be flirty and have the right sexual look and body language.
 
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