"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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In college: Finding a woman's age

BongDuy

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Okay, so in my computer class there is this red head girl, and the thing about the college is that its a community college, so the ages vary from 16-40+.
i was wondering, since it is rude to ask her straight up " How old are you?" I was wondering if there is anything to get it out of her? im 17 at the moment, and i want to see if i even have a chance with her
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jtrain 289

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im not a genious or an expert at girls at all but i ask all the time they dont care. They only get mad if you like guess their age and its eiether alot older than they are or alot younger cause then their like you think im that old or you think im that young. And even then their anger at you for guesing wrong is about the equivalent of how they get mad if you have like incorrect table manners its like who cares
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Analyzeit

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Start a conversation, then when it's going along well ask her age or she'll probably ask you anyway
 
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