"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So I was sitting in class today and there's this hb8 across the room. some hb7 sits next to me and puts her sunglasses on so I'm like **** it and put mine on too. so the hb 8 starts smiling at me and whatnot after she notices I've done this and we start smiling at each other, I catch her passing me glances. and after class I was talking to my other hb 7 friend who was sitting next to the hottie across the room and said she was teasing me from over there. Since I'm relatively new to the game I must ask. does she want it? or just making fun?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SoSuaveScorp said:
So I was sitting in class today and there's this hb8 across the room. some hb7 sits next to me and puts her sunglasses on so I'm like **** it and put mine on too. so the hb 8 starts smiling at me and whatnot after she notices I've done this and we start smiling at each other, I catch her passing me glances. and after class I was talking to my other hb 7 friend who was sitting next to the hottie across the room and said she was teasing me from over there. Since I'm relatively new to the game I must ask. does she want it? or just making fun?
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Unless any of the SoSuave posters just so happens to be her, you won't get an accurate answer. It could be ANYTHING.

Why not make the effort to actually talk to the girl next time, rather than guessing as to what it might have meant?
 
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Since you're new to the game, here's a rule to hold onto.

You can't find out if you don't try.

Trying to tell whether or not a girl likes you by reading signs across the room is like trying to tell if the ocean is cold by looking at it. You gotta dip your feet in.

Find a reason to say hi to the girl. No pressure. Just normal classroom talk. Once you have even one conversation with her, you'll be able to tell if she's friendly and receptive to you or if she's just a b*tch.

Kailex said:
Unless any of the SoSuave posters just so happens to be her, you won't get an accurate answer. It could be ANYTHING.

Why not make the effort to actually talk to the girl next time, rather than guessing as to what it might have meant?
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Freakin Kailex...Stop beating me to advice. Go back to exhile!
 
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Why don't you ask her out and find out instead of wondering? No one here has the telepathic abilities to be able to answer that for you. This is a lesson you need to learn now. Ask or you'll never find out, ever.

[Edit]: Dang, I was two minutes too late. You guys are quick.
 
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why dont you punch her. :box: isnt that what school kids do to express interest? :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Haha yeah ya'll are right. thanks for the speedy replies and ill go for it!
 
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