"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In casual conversation. She says she has a husband or bf?

BuckMasterFlex

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What is your take?
You the man are not even hitting on the girl. Just being a decent human. Then she mentions that she taken.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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My experience is they are putting up the defense of you can have it if your ok with the women cheating.
 

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In my experience it’s all in the way she brings it up. I’ve had girls bring up something semi positive about their husband or boyfriend.... and other times they say something negative. For example at a local pub ended up sitting next to a group of girls at a bar. The girl next to me saw my meal come out and said it must be nice to be able to eat what ever you want and look like that.... I took that as a compliment and said well I’m in the hole today I did a long run, lifted and barely at so I’m starving . She then used that to bash her husband... and said I wish my husband would make an effort to get in some type of shape. I knew she was trying to let me know she wasn’t exactly happy and if I made an effort she would probably be open to cheating. I wasn’t interested and didn’t take part in bashing her husband but over the next two hours sitting there she continued to talk to me.... and made an effort to throw more shots at her husband... somehow getting in that he’s addicted to porn and can’t even get it up

Another time a chick noticed a shirt I was wearing and it was a t shirt of a popular bar at a beach town. Said omg I love “ that bar”.... I tell her it’s my favorite place when I visit there and she is smiling and tells me her and her husband go there all the time. In the process of talking to her she talks about her and her husband numerous times and refers to them eventually as we..... friendly conversation but she’s into her husband.
 

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It happens to me a lot but. It ends up a turn off. Which I think in the end is the women saying dont try because I would and will.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It means -

“I don’t like you.”
Most likely. Its open for convo. But in the situation for me it doesn't seem that way. It more seems a defensive mechanism. Im not in any way giving any signals or game.
 

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Im not some classic Adonis. Im just a big relatively handsome guy with some confidence because I just got laid the night before.

I had gf at 8 and all through high school when I had a gf I had girls who were my friends, which helped and hindered relationships. But gave me inside info on how a womens mind works
 

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Thats why im a long time lurker only here on a downswing. Vagina comes and goes and when your up your up
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Most married women will be wearing a ring.

I tend to not talk to women wearing rings.

Boyfriends are different than husbands. It's generally a good idea to use a boyfriend destroyer line.
 

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Example. I just ask for a drink. They say I have a bf. Stuff like that. This probably needs a member of the other sex to chime in.
 

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99.99% of the time if she mentions her relationship status as not single she's not interested.

The .01% of the time is when she only mentions it once or twice and acts like a single woman most of the time.
 

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If you are talking to a girl they usually feel you are talking to them because you want to have sex with them. Off topic if you look anywhere in there vicinity they think you want to. So they let you know they have a husband.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Another time a chick noticed a shirt I was wearing and it was a t shirt of a popular bar at a beach town. Said omg I love “ that bar”.... I tell her it’s my favorite place when I visit there and she is smiling and tells me her and her husband go there all the time. In the process of talking to her she talks about her and her husband numerous times and refers to them eventually as we..... friendly conversation but she’s into her husband.
I don't know man ... that's a classic cold approach technique, using something the person is wearing to start a conversation. What is a woman in love with her husband doing hitting on strangers? :rolleyes:
 
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