"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In case you are ever on the wrong end of this

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Interesting article.

The strangest thing is here is a man who says he isn't the father , but the state wants him to pay. But for real, usually in these paternity suite cases the dude is the father and isn't trying to claim the kid.

I've heard of cases where dudes have been paying support for damn near twelve years and the kid isn't his. Damn. That's a tough call. Most men won't take care of their own kids, but the mahfvckers will take care of somebody elses kid. Funny....not.

Man, these things happen. I think now a days most pregnancies are unplanned. If she seeded up by thais dude whe would have known he was the father. But she might have been skeezin. Plus he has loot.

Yeah, don't be successful. Cause one day you never know whose going to come back, asking for a piece of the pie.
 

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I wanted to share this because it is *kinda* related to this article...

I knew a guy who had a vasectomy (sp) and didn't wish to have any more children. He married this hell-spawn witch of a woman who made his life a living nightmare every day until he finally agreed to reverse the vasectomy and have a baby. However, the reversal didn't take, and he was unable to impregnate her. She decided on artificial insemination to get pregnant. The man consented to the procedure on one condition: she must sign an agreement stating that if they are to divorce in the future, he will not be responsible for support payments. She signs, and out comes baby nine months later. They ended up divorcing a few years down the road, and when time came for a settlement, the judge ruled that the contract he made her sign was unlawful. Now that man is stuck with support payments every month until the child's 18th birthday. (This was in Massachusetts)

Fortunately, the guy from this story is a total pr1ck who deserves a lot worse. But this just goes to show that you don't even have to whip your sh1t out to get stuck with child support. Watch every little step you make at all times with all people.
 
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