In camp with 4 betas and a girl

[TheVampSlayer]

I was in camp last week with 4 complete AFCs and a girl with good looks. Since they orbit around her she decides what to do and all of them follow. We have way more fun when she's not around, but they are so desperate they just pursue her. She is very manipulative. What should I do in this situation and are there any recommended readings?
Basically, I want her to stop being a manipulative ***** and actually have fun without her ruining it.

 

[Dante1a]

How is she being manipulative? That might help us answer a bit better.

 

[TheVampSlayer]

Let's say we want to play a game. Then she makes puppy eyes and says that she doesn't want to play because she will lose. So she proposes another game in which they let her win and jokes about always winning. Let's say she gets her food and doesn;t want to eat a sandwich, but doesn't want to leave it. She asks one of them to eat it for her. He says he doesn't want it. She then says, "please, for me" and he eats the ****ing sandwich. There are many more others, and in most cases she doesn't even open her mouth. I once joked about her manipulating them. They nodded. She said, "I'm mad at you, I'm not going to speak to you(you being plural, as in, all of us)." She forgot and 5 minutes later was speakin again. I said, "great conviction." She then realizad she hadn't 'won' and said "But I am really mad and i makes me feel sad that you say I manipulate them(this time speaking directly to me)". The rest of the guys jumped in and said "He's joking". I couldn't even breath before they said that. How do I stop either her from doing this or them from following?
Or alternatively, how should I treat her?

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Don't worry about her, you can't let her get in the way of you having a good time. Some men will never learn, and those orbiters will likely never change if they're doing the cringeworthy stuff that you said they were.

Don't deal with any of her s**t. Don't treat the girl badly, but obviously don't give in. I attend a group that has a chick like this, and she does the same s**t. I just stay away from her and won't let her get in the way of me having a good time.

 

[TheVampSlayer]

@Zapp Brannigan thanks for replying. Will do. Also, nice nickname.

 

[devilkingx2]

those guys sound cartoonishly stupid. and that girl sounds cartoonishly evil

 

[Starfvcks 64]

Starfvkcs 64

You're talking about playing games at camp, so stear the games into a more sexual direction. It will make the guys look like a dumbass in her eyes, expose her to the guys, and make you look cool to all of them.

For example, when I went camping (and people play this at parties too) when I was younger, there is a game called "never have I ever" where everyone starts with all five fingers raised on their hand. You go around in a circle and each person makes a true statement starting with "i've never ___" and anyone who HAS done that particular thing puts a finger down. First person to put all their fingers down loses. It always turns sexual, like "i've never had a threesome" because people want to see what others will confess too.
Girls love this shlt.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Do your own thing and have fun doing it. Then bring one of your friends to do whatever it is with you. Or just have him 'help' you out. Then she'll be nosy and come around. You simply tell her to join you guys. Don't ask, command. IF even that. Just grab her arm and do whatever, like actions over words.

 

[El Payaso]

White knights and orbiters are the absolute worst. Worse than feminists.

 

[logicallefty]

Agree with El Payaso. Each of the orbiters actually genuinely in their own mind thinks they have a chance at the lone poon and will not stop at this point, they can't. She knows that too good and well and will get everything she can out of it and knows already that she won't be giving that poon to any of em. Just don't participate as has been said and sit back and enjoy the entertainment. And be glad you are above and smarter than this.