"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In a rut....EX GF???

rjames407

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Hi guys, im in a bit of a rut at the moment and need to get back 'into the game'. I went out with a girl two years ago and she left me because I was AFC, I have learnt a lot since then though. I met with her last year twice around this time and went for drinks and one thing led to another. There has been some communication between us but not much. However recently I called her, had long chat (also managed to find out she is currently single) and then left it a few weeks and called her again yest and had a brief chat but 'I had to go as I was busy'.

Is it wise to meet with her and more to the point if I agree to go and see her today as a spontaneous trip (she lives about 120 miles away) will it be seen as AFC as Im travelling 120 miles to see HER and she will read into it the reason why I want to meet as being to sleep with her (which is the reason really).

Cheers guys
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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KontrollerX

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120 miles just to get some pvssy makes you an AFC by default my friend.

You're in a rut though so go ahead and do this if you like just bear in mind you are going to waste a lot of money on gas and food and with gas prices so sky high as of late I do hope you have a good job with which to cover your trip's expenses.

If there was an escort service near by you I'd say it would be a better investment than what you are planning to do.

Cuz I mean hey at least with an escort service you'd be getting what you want for all of your money.

Personally I hate wasting time and effort over uncertainty but well this is your life.

Do as you will.
 

WesCottII

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Ha.

Ex's are ex's for a reason. You'd have to do alot of work to not slip into your old AFC tendancies, and tbh. . . there are 3 billion girls in the world. This one AINT special, find one closer.

P.s don't ring up girls to "chat".
 
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