"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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In a rut....EX GF???

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rjames407

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Hi guys, im in a bit of a rut at the moment and need to get back 'into the game'. I went out with a girl two years ago and she left me because I was AFC, I have learnt a lot since then though. I met with her last year twice around this time and went for drinks and one thing led to another. There has been some communication between us but not much. However recently I called her, had long chat (also managed to find out she is currently single) and then left it a few weeks and called her again yest and had a brief chat but 'I had to go as I was busy'.

Is it wise to meet with her and more to the point if I agree to go and see her today as a spontaneous trip (she lives about 120 miles away) will it be seen as AFC as Im travelling 120 miles to see HER and she will read into it the reason why I want to meet as being to sleep with her (which is the reason really).

Cheers guys
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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KontrollerX

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120 miles just to get some pvssy makes you an AFC by default my friend.

You're in a rut though so go ahead and do this if you like just bear in mind you are going to waste a lot of money on gas and food and with gas prices so sky high as of late I do hope you have a good job with which to cover your trip's expenses.

If there was an escort service near by you I'd say it would be a better investment than what you are planning to do.

Cuz I mean hey at least with an escort service you'd be getting what you want for all of your money.

Personally I hate wasting time and effort over uncertainty but well this is your life.

Do as you will.
 
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WesCottII

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Ha.

Ex's are ex's for a reason. You'd have to do alot of work to not slip into your old AFC tendancies, and tbh. . . there are 3 billion girls in the world. This one AINT special, find one closer.

P.s don't ring up girls to "chat".
 
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