"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone have advice on handling a girl you had a ONS with that you have to see all the time? I messed around with my friend's friend, and this girl is like HB5 tops. I regret that I fooled around with her, and I pretty much don't want anything to do with her anymore. She visits my friend (we live in the same house) all the time, and more than once I've been left alone with her. Hella awkward.

So any tips?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I wouldnt say anything to make her aware of the sit... just act natural and play it cool still.... keep her around and dont shrug her off.... but just let it go.. act like its not a big deal
 
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Just treat it like it was.......A ONS....Nothing more. I have 3 girls down the local pub i have ONS with. When i get left with them alone its a little awkward. But heh.....its life.
 
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Alright. I'm mostly worried that the girl is trying to get something out of me (more sex, or worse.. a relationship) because of the way she acts around me now. But yeah I guess I'll just keep it cool.
 
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