"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In a pickle.

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Anyone have advice on handling a girl you had a ONS with that you have to see all the time? I messed around with my friend's friend, and this girl is like HB5 tops. I regret that I fooled around with her, and I pretty much don't want anything to do with her anymore. She visits my friend (we live in the same house) all the time, and more than once I've been left alone with her. Hella awkward.

So any tips?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I wouldnt say anything to make her aware of the sit... just act natural and play it cool still.... keep her around and dont shrug her off.... but just let it go.. act like its not a big deal
 
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Just treat it like it was.......A ONS....Nothing more. I have 3 girls down the local pub i have ONS with. When i get left with them alone its a little awkward. But heh.....its life.
 
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Alright. I'm mostly worried that the girl is trying to get something out of me (more sex, or worse.. a relationship) because of the way she acts around me now. But yeah I guess I'll just keep it cool.
 
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